Dating Coach Review: Casey Zander MBT vs. ChatGPT

Casey Zander MBT Review as Dating Coach

“I’ve been watching a lot of Casey Zander” says an acquaintance. It was the first time I’d heard that name.

“I’m not looking for a relationship. Not now, not ever after I’ve learned about women’s true nature on his YouTube channel.”

That was the trigger that got me to investigate because it flipped the script on the dating dynamic – which generally always works. We’ve all heard it before from a woman you’re interested in….I’m not looking for a relationship. You know she didn’t finish the sentence, though. Here’s how it goes:

I’m not looking for a relationship..until the right guy comes around, and I’ll happily accept a relationship.

It’s apex game from women, letting the guy down in a socially acceptable way.

Fast forward a week later, and I’m flying to Balneario Camburiou, Brazil.

Two interesting things happened to me this week.

But first, who is Casey Zander?

Who is Casey Zander?

“I believe men are much more wholesome and God-like and good by default.”

Casey Zander is a religious, attractive, masculine, white male who didn’t feel he was nearly as successful with women as he thought he should have been in his teens and early twenties.

Most men think they can do better, but the difference with Mr. Zander is that he went to the gym consistently, so it was evident from seeing his body, intelligent, and even well-off financially, yet still..he was not anywhere near as successful with women as he felt he should be.

While Casey feels some bitterness towards women and maybe how they’ve unfairly treated him, as is evident in his tone on his whiteboard YouTube videos, he also wasn’t willing to accept the victim mentality, which is defeat and, frankly, pathetic.

Mr. Zander is analytical. So he thought about why he was not successful. He dipped into daygame, red-pill, and PUA strategies and devised his methodology – developing full-stack men.

Casey first has a program called Never Left On Read, which was widely considered sleezy by average folk. Learn more about the advertisements he ran for that program here.

He has since sunsetted that program and started a more agreeable program called Masculinity Blueprint Accelerator, or MBT. He favors the traditional relationships of yesteryear.

Casey Zander avoids the PUA-style strategies on his YouTube and MBT and never makes direct references, but on a high level, it is the same: how to attract more and higher-quality women.

There is a problem, though. Casey doesn’t show his women (except I found one photo below). It’s taboo to do this, but wouldn’t you like to see who he’s able to date with his strategies?

What if you were to see his girlfriend and her attractiveness was already what you are achieving, or worse, someone you wouldn’t want to date?

My own advice as follows..

There is one thing better than pussy – new pussy.

There is one way to solve all girl problems – more girls.

Does Casey Zander Have a Girlfriend?

This is the only photo I found online of what appears to be Casey Zander’s girlfriend at one point. He seems younger, so I’ll put this photo around 2021-2023.

I noticed some really strange advice he’s giving in his videos. Wierd for me I’ll say.

“You want to choose the women who are already choosing you.”

That’s not how it works for the highest-quality women. They are not choosing you. Have you ever heard of Bismark? He’s another dating coach. I went out with him to a party in Medellin and he had this same idea. I’m not saying he doesn’t get girls. I am saying he gets only those girls who will show him interest. Attractive girls don’t do that. But some girls do, so who? Yes, the maybe still attractive, but not top notch girls.

I repeat. The highest-quality women, no matter who you are, are NOT showing you interest unless they want your money and gifts. This is true for me, you, Casey, Bismark, and Brad Pitt.

“You’re never going to find me walking up trying to create interest in a woman.” Crazy. Then good luck with online dating bro!

Casey said, “I see girls for many months or years sometimes.” Me, too. He said it as if it was something to be proud of. So, I’m a little confused. So you’re bragging that you’re not having one night stands? Keep in mind that Casey also says you should see a girl much less than once a week. So his many months relationship is my month-long in terms of times seeing the woman.

Again, I don’t want to hate on the guy. He seems cool and genuine. But he’s not bringing home supermodels. Probably 7s and 8s.

The Curly-haired Cutie

I meet a girl on the street. Blue skies. Mid-afternoon. “I’m looking for a health food store,” I say. Very attractive. Just before she returned to work, I invited her to dinner. She turned her back on me, then as if she reconsidered, turned around and accepted with a smile. We exchanged Instagram.

Shortly thereafter, she sent me the first message on Instagram. She’s interested.

I did invite her to dinner that evening. She responded the next day, suggesting Friday, two days later. I accepted.

On that Friday early afternoon, I asked how she was. Before I did this, I considered not text or texting later in the afternoon. I also wondered what I should say. I decided to play it cool with something normal.

She responded quickly to the first message. I then asked to confirm dinner that night. ERROR.

She did not respond until 8pm, otherwise known as dinner time.

“What time? And where?”

I IMMEDIATELY responded with a text and a video as I walked up to the restaurant, inviting her to join. I later deleted that video. It was the last text she’d ever send to me.

Beach Blonde Brazilian

I’m walking on the beach (praia brava), and a gorgeous blond Brazilian calls me over. Great! We chat for a bit. I can tell she’s interested. Assuming I’m visiting, she asks until when I’m in town for. I say Monday. It was a Wednesday, plenty of time to hang out.

I challenged her to beach tennis. I make the following proposition: if I win, then I get her number. She accepted. I pretended to “lose,” but she wanted to give me her number anyway. This is a good start. Two beautiful women in two days. I’m on a roll. Almost in desire overload.

I’m feeling good about this interaction. I texted her later that day and invited her to the Ferris Wheel at 9pm. She declined “I’m tired”. The next day (above screenshot), I asked her to dinner. She refused: “My friend wants to go to a bar”.

The next day, Saturday, I texted her in the morning. ERROR. She doesn’t respond the entire day, and I double text at 6pm. ERROR. Still, I invited her to lunch the next day. You get the point. I’d never end up meeting her despite that initial interest.

So, what happened?

I was showing low-value behavior. Asking both to dinner, one the same night we met. This was a mistake.

Texting every day. A mistake.

Wishing the one girl good morning was also a mistake.

Casey Zander would recommend that I treat her like garbage. Then she’ll be interested. That means don’t pay as much attention not her. Limited emojis. Limited words during texting. Long delays between messages.

Online/Offline Encounter Success

This girl I saw on Tinder and followed on Instagram. She followed back. I sent the first message: a story reply. We chatted a bit and eventually met up on Friday evening after her work at 11pm.

While we initially made these plans, around 9pm or so, I actually backed out. I said it was kinda late. That was a bold, high-value move.

The thing is, I wasn’t playing any games. I usually go to bed at 10pm, maybe 11pm. She was going to get out of work at 10pm, go home, then get to me by 11pm or so, then we’d start our date, who knows how long it would go and Satruday morning is gym for me.

She insisted that we meet. I accepted.

The next day, she was hoping to see me after work. I knew I wasn’t overly interested in seeing her again so soon. And she was being unattractive by asking and insisting.

The next day, Sunday, I dropped by to visit her work, and again, she asked two times if we’d see each other later. It was my last day in town, after all. She also went in for the public embrace and various kisses as if we’d been dating for a long time. It turned me off. Low-value behavior. Why is she accepting me so quickly?

I never ended up seeing her, making up an excuse.

Casey Zander’s Biggest Red Flag

“How do you meet women?” he was asked in an interview.

Casey responded: “The majority online”

In the same sentence, he’ll say that he had one focus for ten years (from 18 to 28), and that was leveling up his dating. And that brought him to online dating? Folks. Something doesn’t add up.

In an earlier interview, Casey Zander agreed with the host saying that in person is so much better. So, what changed?

The hottest girls are not online. Any man with high standards knows this to be true. There are plenty of hot girls on dating apps. The hottest girls are not.

The highest-quality girls are not.

Go over to a sugar daddy dating website and broswe those girls. They’re going to be much hotter than the average girl on Tinder. Why? Becasue looks matter on sugar dating apps.

Casey Zander’s experience, which is negative in the dating world as he admits on countless interviews, is colored by his interacting with lower quality girls he meets through online dating apps.

Casey Zander MBT In A Sentence

You have to have personality traits that convey high value.

When a woman speaks or texts directly, she’s interested. If ever you are wondering as a guy what she means, or as Casey would say ‘she is speaking covertly’, it means she is not interested.

ChatGPT As A Dating Coach

Bill Gates says that in ten years, AI is going to make the majority of human tasks today unnecessary. It might be that he sees and uses a different AI than I do, but I don’t see it. AI has made searching better. It’s a good language teacher. And, as it turns out, a pretty decent dating coach.

I had ChatGPT analyze the two situations above. Admittedly, this is pretty basic stuff that normal humans might learn on their own, but I’m retarded socially so I found this tremendously insightful. You let me know.

This is related to the Curly-haired Cutie I met on the street.

Above is what I did wrong, and below is how my ChatGPT dating coach says I could have increased my value through the interaction and increased her chances of not losing interest and meeting a great man.

Pretty much the same advice that Casey Zander would give to increase your value in her eyes, and thus, your chances of meeting her.

On to the Blonde Beach Brazilian.

As it was my last day, I asked ChatGPT to help me try and get her out one last chance. I did use the given advice and texted her early afternoon. She told me that she was at the beach with her girlfriends, suggesting I meet up, but I was already in the South of the city eating an Acai before doing a zipline to an even further beach in the south.

What do you think? Was this advice as steller as I think it is.

Why Dating Coaches Don’t Work?

Casey Zander, like all men, including famous, rich, successful, attractive men, have had dating difficulties he’s had to overcome. He’s made his attempts. He’s tested various strategies. He’s thought about it more than the average man, which allows him to create YouTube content. But, do his strategies work? Kinda. Yea and no. And that goes for him, too,

Casey Zander’s own strategies kinda work for him. It’s not like he, or any other dating guru, is teaching strategies that work all the time. Not even close.

You might be unimpressed after seeing who he’s dating with his “expert” strategies. It might be what you already can get. Now, I don’t mean to shit on him. I find his general concepts good. But they’re not the answer. I don’t want any man reading this to take Casey as gospel. He has something that he believes works for him and he’s trying to teach it to you.

Watch a couple of his videos, sure, but ultimately, go off for yourself with my advice:

There is one thing better than pussy – new pussy.

There is one way to solve all girl problems – more girls.

How Tall is Casey Zander?

Casey Zander confirmed in an interview that he is 5 feet and 10 inches tall.

Casey Zander Dating Coach Review

Casey Zander flips the dating script by reminding men that high-value behavior isn’t just confidence—it’s scarcity, purpose, and emotional control. His advice, while extreme at times, aligns with natural dynamics most guys feel but never consciously understand. If you’ve been confused by mixed signals or ghosting, Casey gives you a framework to decode it.

But, watch out. Because until you see what kind of female the dating coach is able to date, how useful can you really take his strategies?

Ask yourself: “this guy sounds like he’s got total control over his dating life, so..where is his girlfriend? Where are the girls he’s dating? Do they look how I imagine they would look if I knew as much as Casey?”

I like Casey. We’re similar in many ways. It will be interesting to see his new realizations over the next 5 years as he enters his early 30s.

There is one thing better than pussy – new pussy.

There is one way to solve all girl problems – more girls.